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Paninis for Everyone

In 2018, a lone gunman opened fire inside the walls of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, killing 17 people and injuring at least that many more. Two weeks later, the surviving students returned to campus. It was February, after all, and the school year show must go on. While I recall story after story about the tragedy, I don’t remember any news personality explaining that those kids would have to walk through those doors again. Thinking about it now, I cannot explain why I thought they wouldn’t have to return to school. It just never occurred to me that going back to places of trauma would be expected of anyone. Yet, it is. The people who survived the 9/11 attacks are routinely expected to attend recognition services at the various sites where their lives were in peril. Survivors of Pearl Harbor have been recognized in programs held at Pearl Harbor. Is this healthy, this returning to trauma site mentality? Experts are divided. Dr. Thema Bryant-Davis with Pepperdine’s psychology department says that it is natural not to want to return to locations where bad things happened. “People avoid other people, places, or things that remind them of trauma, which is a result of feeling powerlessness, hopelessness, and terror.” But, avoidance isn’t always healthy long term, especially when the place is part of our normal routine. Refusal to reenter can inhibit a survivor of trauma from leading a full life. I never saw myself in this category, yet I recently conquered a fear I didn’t even realize I held.

Tips to Tame Daily Anxiety

Anxiety affects millions of people worldwide. The Anxiety & Depression Association of America indicates anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the United States, affecting 40 million adults age 18 and older every year, which equates to around 19.1 percent of the population.

O Holy Night

O Holy Night

The origins of “O Holy Night” can be traced to a request made by a 19th century French priest. In the fall of 1847, that priest asked a French merchant named Placide Cappeau to write a Christmas poem. Cappeau’s poem was eventually shared with French composer Adolphe Adam, who quickly set the poem to music. The song made its debut on Christmas Eve 1847 and has been a beloved holiday song ever since.

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